some of these ole timerâs graves?â Alice strolls from stone to stone, her eyes taking in the inscriptions. âNo, really, Iâm serious. Have you read them?â she asks. âI like that oneâright over there.â Alice makes her way to a random, grey-granite stone. She begins reading it: ââIf thereâs another world, she lives in bliss. If there is none, she made the most of this.â Words to live by, if you ask me,â she says with significance.
I didnât ask you, I think to myself. Just let me withdraw into my own self-pity.
âOh look,â says Alice, with typically inappropriate lightness. âTheyâre preparing a plot.â
I glance over to view a green tarp draped over freshly dug soil. So what. Big deal.
âFuneralâs tomorrow, no doubt,â says Alice. âI bet itâs for old man Davis. You knew him?â
I shake my head, wiping the tears around my lashes. I donât care about ole man Davis or any of these people. I just want my mom back.
âLost his wife a few years ago; used to be here all the time fixing up her grave. Explains why I havenât seen him in a while. Oh no, wait, itâs not for him. Iâm mixing him up with the bearded man who comes to visit his sister.â Now Alice is standing over where I sit on the damp ground. Still I say nothing.
âRough one, eh?â she asks, rubbing at the top of my head. I recoil a bit though I hate to admit it feels nice to be mother-loved.
âThe stages of grief never happen in the order they say. I mean the disbelief and the shock are always the starter but then it can go in any direction. Some folks feel yearning and despair first while others feel anger. Eventually we all get to acceptance.â
âIâll never accept it.â
âIt takes time, Marla.â
âEven thisâ¦now,â I say, moving my hands around my head. âTalking to the dead is like a monologue between me and me. Ridiculous. Pointless. Iâm sick of pruning and planting for no good reason, wasting all this emotion, words, time,
gardening
, on someone whoâs never coming back.â
Alice looks at the new seedlings popping up around my momâs stone before glancing to Joyâs grave with its overabundant and firmly established garden. She frowns. âYouâre right, these graves are starting to look a little ridiculous,â she says.
âI just want her back.â I say. âNo more flowers.â
âSo youâre doing rocks now?â Alice glances down at a series of stones that Iâve carefully laid out in a semi-circle.
âTheyâre specialâstriped ones. See?â A smile suddenly forms on my face. âMy rock collection. Mom got me started when I was about six years old at the beach. I thought it was a stupid idea when she introduced it to me. By age seven it was a hobby, by fifteen it was an addiction.â
âAnd now itâs an obsession,â Alice teases. âThis oneâs pretty,â she says, squatting down and touching a grey one with a jagged white line going down its center. âLooks like somebody almost painted it on. I bet your eyes go buggy trying to find a striped rock in the middle of all the solid ones on the shore.â
âItâs a challenge. My mom liked to do lots of silly little things that didnât cost any money. She always said, âThe best things in life
are
free⦠free to be!ââ I pause a moment before wailing, âI miss her smell. I miss her hands. I miss her eyes squinting a smile at me for whatever good news I told her, even when it wasnât so good.â
âI know, honey,â says Alice.
âHow am I supposed to live fifty more years without her? Thereâs so much more I wanted to say to her. I thought our time together would be longer.â Now Iâm sobbing like a small child.
âOh, sweetieâ¦.â
âBut I